This is not going to be a blog post where I write about how attractive Ryan Gosling is; I think his good looks are pretty obvious.  Even my own husband commented on how handsome he looked in “Crazy, Stupid, Love.” And he never comments on another man’s looks. “I’ve never seen him look so good,” he said as we exited the theatre. This is exactly my point. Gosling could use his looks to his advantage in every film, but he doesn’t. And I, for one, am thankful for it. Gosling stars in four of my favorite movies: “The Notebook,” “Lars and the Real Girl,” “Blue Valentine,” and his latest film,…